Philip was born as son and heir apparent of the important Devon esquire Robert Cary of Cockington in the early years of the latter’s first marriage. Much of Robert’s life was taken up with the attempt to recover the estates forfeited by his own father, Sir John Cary†, a former chief baron of the Exchequer under Richard II who had been impeached in the Merciless Parliament of 1388, but as a consequence of his marriage to the daughter of Sir Philip Courtenay†, one of the leading landowners in the south-west, he achieved a degree of political rehabilitation under Henry IV and went on to represent Devon in at least 12 Parliaments between 1407 and 1426.
As Robert Cary’s efforts to recover the lands his father had forfeited had been only partially successful, a profitable marriage had to be found for his eldest son. The chosen candidate was Christine, the daughter of the Somerset landowner William Orchard, and after the death of her younger brother Richard (who only survived their father for six months) heiress to his estates. Philip proved his wife’s age in December 1422 and was granted seisin of her inheritance (which centred on the manor of Orchard, included shares in the manor of Bickenhall and in holdings in and around Taunton, and were later assessed at over £12 p.a.) the following February.
In about 1431 Philip inherited his father’s lands. Chief among these was the family seat of Cockington, which alone was deemed to be worth some £40 p.a. Yet, the Cary lands, like those of the Orchards, were saddled with a dowager, Philip’s stepmother Joan, a daughter of Sir William Hankford c.j.KB, who went on to outlive her stepson and died in 1447. The dower assigned to her consisted of various tenements and over 75 acres of land in the manor of Cockington, reducing its value by more than £13 p.a.
Few other details of Cary’s career have come to light, and it may be that he simply lived the quiet life of a wealthy landowner. He was well connected among the gentry of the south-west: his blood-tie with the Courtenays of Powderham aside, through his stepmother, he was linked with her nephew Richard Hankford*, who successively married the heiress of the Fitzwaryn family and a daughter of John Montagu, earl of Salisbury.
Cary’s premature death may account for his failure to go on to hold further office or to secure election to the Commons again. He died on 23 Sept. 1436 aged less than 40 years.
Philip’s only son and heir, William, was just over a month old at his father’s death.
