Richard never achieved the stature of his father’s elder brother the celebrated Sir Edward Dallingridge† (c.1346-1393), who came to national prominence as a councillor first to Richard Fitzalan, earl of Arundel, and then to Richard II, and is now chiefly remembered as the builder of Bodiam castle. Nor could he match the achievements of his cousin Sir John, a man several years his senior, who was favoured as a household knight of Henry IV.
Richard and his younger brother, William, were, however, acknowledged to be the heirs of their wealthy cousin the childless Sir John Dallingridge, who arranged in 1404 that after his death and that of his widow, Alice Beauchamp, all his estates should pass to them. Alice, who was to keep all of Sir John’s landed holdings for the rest of her life, was instructed to support the boys in the meantime, or alternatively to provide them with £20 a year for their sustenance. When Sir John died in 1408, Richard, then still a minor, was duly found to be his heir. Because of his minority their feudal overlord, Thomas Fitzalan, earl of Arundel, acted as patron of the rectory of Chailey (Sussex) in January following, and it may be that he was brought up in the comital household rather than by the widowed Alice. Yet even after he came of age many years were to pass before he was able to take possession of his Dallingridge inheritance, for Alice outlived her husband by some 34 years, not dying until 1443.
Dallingridge was not left entirely without landed resources in all that time, for on the death on 14 Apr. 1411 of his father’s sister Katherine, widow of John Butler (d.1377) and of John Stevenes, he inherited her manor of Lockerley in Hampshire. He was granted seisin in June 1422 after attaining his majority, yet for a long time he had to resist the claims of the Wayte family, descendants of Butler’s sister, to other properties Katherine had held. It was not to be until November 1440 that he was licenced to enter the disputed manor of Wymering, and he relinquished it to the Waytes just four months later. In return, and as part of a compromise agreement, he finally acquired from the Waytes Lymbourne in Havant together with rents of £12 p.a. from land at Stoke and ‘Westheye’ on Hayling island.
Before his return to Parliament for Hampshire, therefore, Dallingridge was a person of relatively small means; he was not among the county’s esquires deemed to have incomes over £40 p.a. and required to take up knighthood in the 1430s. His cousin’s widow, the redoubtable Lady Alice, daughter of Sir John Beauchamp† of Powick and mother of Ralph Butler, Lord Sudeley, does not appear to have promoted his interests as her late husband Sir John Dallingridge had wished, even though she was well placed to do so, for she had been called upon by Henry V to attend on his French queen and subsequently employed to look after the infant Henry VI. There is no sign that Dallingridge proved able to take advantage of her influential contacts at the royal court, or ever became a member of the King’s household. Rather, he chose to build on the connexions forged by his uncle and father by looking for patronage to the earls of Arundel, seated at Arundel castle in west Sussex. There is no evidence that he crossed the Channel with Earl Thomas on Henry V’s first military expedition in 1415 (following which the earl died of illness contracted at Harfleur), but he did sail to Normandy in the summer of 1417, as a member of the retinue of the earl’s male heir John Arundel, Lord Mautravers, with whom he served at the siege of Rouen in the following year. After a brief stay in England, where his lord died in the spring of 1421, he returned to France that summer with the royal army, perhaps not returning home until after Henry V’s death in August 1422. During the minority of Arundel’s son and heir, another John, Dallingridge became quite closely attached to Sir John Pelham*, probably then the wealthiest landowner in Sussex, on whose behalf he witnessed a number of important transactions in 1428, shortly before Pelham’s death. However, after the Arundel heir proved his age, Dallingridge received from him in March 1432 appointment as constable of Arundel castle for life, with an annual fee of £10. He was confirmed in this office by the Crown during the minority of the earl’s infant heir, on 28 June 1435.
It seems likely that Dallingridge sought election to the Parliament which met just a few months later so that he might assist members of the comital family and his fellow retainers of the late earl to sort out their affairs at Westminster, especially in dealing with the administration of the earl’s will and matters relating to the wardship of the heir. Both the shire knights elected for Sussex on 1 Sept. were engaged in this business, and although up until then Dallingridge’s interests had centred on that county, he had to look elsewhere for a seat. Four days later he was returned for the neighbouring county, Hampshire,
Dallingridge was kept very busy in the next two decades as a royal commissioner and j.p. He was shortlisted, but not pricked, to be sheriff of Hampshire in November 1448, and actually took up office a year later. As sheriff, he conducted the parliamentary elections of 1450, then returning as one of the shire knights a personal friend, the Exchequer official Thomas Pound*, who, already a feoffee of his estates, was destined to benefit from his landed settlements. During his term he seized 300 ewes from the estates of Southwick priory for payment of taxes granted by Convocation, but proved unable to sell them. The King pardoned him the sum due in April 1451. Another pardon he obtained, in August 1455, referred to his two shrievalties.
Dallingridge’s appointment to many commissions of array in the course of Henry VI’s reign are a sign that his attributes as a military leader were recognized, yet there is no evidence that he took up arms for either Lancaster or York in the civil war years, and he always declined to take up knighthood. The change of regime in 1460-1 made little immediate difference to his continuing involvement in public service, but after July 1463 his participation in local government, save for membership of the Sussex bench, came to an end. He must then have been nearing 70 years old. He had connexions of note among the Yorkists: in the following year, as a feoffee of the manor of Laughton and hundred of Shiplake, Sussex, formerly belonging to Sir John Pelham, he conveyed them to three of the Bourgchier brothers (Thomas, archbishop of Canterbury, Henry, earl of Essex, and John, Lord Berners, the husband of his niece), apparently to hold to the use of Pelham’s descendants. In March 1465 he was named among a distinguished group of feoffees of the former Fitzalan and Arundel estates in Wales and ten English counties, with Archbishop Bourgchier again heading their list and the then earl of Arundel, William, included in their number.
Nothing is known about our MP’s wife, save that her name was Sibyl and that in 1441 he settled on her in jointure the manor of Lymbourne and the lands near Havant and on Hayling island which had once belonged to the Butlers.
Almost immediately, in July 1471, an assize of novel disseisin looked into the claims of John Wood III* that Sir Roger Lewknor had unjustly ousted him from the castle and manor of Bodiam. Wood had purchased the reversionary interest in the estate for a large sum of money from the son and heir of Dallingridge’s appointee, Edmund Mille, on the understanding that Dallingridge had meant Mille to have Bodiam after his death and had agreed to its sale. The jury found in Wood’s favour, but Lewknor adamantly refused to let the matter drop, and after hearings before the King’s bench and in Chancery Wood was persuaded to give up his title in June 1473.
Curiously, ‘a tombe of marbyll’ made for Dallingridge and placed in the ‘Vicaryyschauncell’ in the college of the Holy Trinity at Arundel, was given in March 1476 by Edward Poynings, the master of the college, to John Dudley†, a retainer of the earl of Arundel who had replaced Dallingridge on the Sussex bench. No longer in its original position, the tomb chest now has a smaller, richer chest placed on top of it, containing the remains of the earl and his countess. What is difficult to explain is why Dallingridge’s tomb was never put to its intended use. Perhaps our MP had changed his mind about his preferred place of burial, and was interred elsewhere, possibly near his relatives at Robertsbridge abbey.
