A member of a prominent family, Henry is a surprisingly obscure figure for one so well connected. The nephew of Thomas Mowbray, duke of Norfolk, he was also the brother of William Gray, bishop of Lincoln (who made him his residuary legatee in 1436) and the uncle of William’s namesake, who became bishop of Ely in 1454. Bishop Gray of Ely was a son of Henry’s eldest brother, Sir Thomas Gray, executed for his part in the Southampton Plot of 1415.
Perhaps influenced by his Mowbray relatives, Henry chose to settle in Norfolk, where he acquired a manor at Ketteringham, a property said to have come to him in marriage.
No doubt Gray’s connexion with the Mowbrays explains how he came to stand surety for two Nottinghamshire lawyers, John Manchester* and William Neville, in June 1431, when the Crown granted them a farm of properties in Derbyshire, since his aunt, Elizabeth, dowager duchess of Norfolk, had employed Manchester as one of her attorneys.
The 1430s were a busy decade for Gray, for he served two terms in each of the offices of sheriff and escheator in Norfolk and Suffolk, sat briefly on the bench in the former county and was appointed to the first two of his known ad hoc commissions.
By the early 1440s, Gray was one of the bailiffs in Norfolk of the Huntingdonshire abbey of Ramsey. In the same period he witnessed several conveyances of lands on behalf of the Woodhouses of Kimberley and acted as a feoffee for the lawyer, William Dalling of Fordham.
During the second half of the same decade, Gray was caught up in at least two Chancery suits. In one the plaintiff was Humphrey Bourgchier*, a younger son of Henry, earl of Essex. He was a family connexion of Gray’s, since his mother, Isabel, sister of the duke of York, was formerly the wife of the MP’s eldest nephew.
The last few years of Gray’s life were troubled by the activities of his son and namesake, who had come of age by the early 1460s.
In the first of the latter two suits, the plaintiffs were the elder Henry’s son-in-law, Robert Martin of Sutton, Suffolk, and his wife Eleanor, the MP’s daughter. In a bill of 1464, the Martins accused the younger Henry of having in August the previous year intercepted the MP, Eleanor Martin and her seven children with a band of armed men at Caistor St. Edmund near Norwich, while they were travelling from that city (where the elder Gray was then residing) to Sutton. Having apprehended the family party, he had sworn at and rebuked his sister (declaring that he would have cut off her husband’s head had he been present) before taking his prisoners, along with certain goods and documents they had with them, to his ‘place’ at Ketteringham. Although he had released them after some 24 hours, he had retained the goods and writings, which he had deposited in a locked chamber. He had given the keys to the chamber to his father, promising not to remove anything from it without his consent. Upon their release, the MP and his daughter had complained to the duke of Norfolk about the incident, but to no avail since the younger Henry had simply ignored repeated summons to appear before the duke to explain his conduct. The duchess of Norfolk had spoken to him afterwards, and he had promised her that he would not remove any of the documents, save any his father might send for, from the chamber. He had not kept his promise, for when the duke had gone to Ketteringham at the MP’s request to recover the goods and documents, he found that the younger Henry had broken down the door of the chamber and carried its contents away. The Martins concluded their bill (the purpose of which was to recover the stolen items) by alleging that the ‘grete unkyndnes’ which the MP had suffered at the hands of his son had precipitated his last illness and death, since which time the younger Henry had compounded his misbehaviour by occupying certain lands belonging to them.
In the second of the Chancery suits brought after the MP’s death, Robert Martin was the sole plaintiff. In a bill of about 1467, he accused Thomas Ellis†, who had completed his second term as mayor of Norwich the previous year, and Robert Heigham, the city’s common clerk, of misconduct in office. Referring to a deed of 9 Aug. 1460, by which his father-in-law had made over all of his goods and chattels to him, Martin claimed that the MP had had the deed enrolled in the city of Norwich, only for the defendants subsequently to cancel the enrolment without just cause. In this suit, the defendants’ answers and other subsidiary documents have survived. Ellis and Heigham admitted that Gray had asked to have the deed enrolled in the city’s records during Ellis’s first term as mayor (1460-1), but said that he had never appeared in person to acknowledge it as his, as required by custom. Some two years later, moreover, Ellis had entertained the MP, along with Humphrey Bourgchier (by then Lord Cromwell) and his mother, to dinner at his house in Norwich. During the dinner, he had raised the matter of the deed, but Gray had declined the opportunity to acknowledge it. After beginning his second term as mayor, therefore, he had commanded Heigham to erase it from the city’s records. In a replication to the defendants’ account, Martin asserted that the deed had been properly enrolled, and he pointed out that Ellis had denied (‘with open othe and voyce’) ordering Heigham to cancel it when the earl of Oxford and others examined him about the matter. Given the purpose of the deed, it is hardly surprising that Martin was anxious to have its validity upheld. To demonstrate that it represented Gray’s true wishes, he emphasized the good relationship he and Eleanor had enjoyed with her father. He informed the court that they and all their children had resided with him at Norwich for some two years in the early 1460s and that he had spent his last days with them at Sutton, where he had died.
The outcome of neither this nor the Chancery case of 1464 is known, although in the suit in which he was sole plaintiff Martin referred also to a verdict he had won at common law over the goods (valued at 300 marks) and writings his brother-in-law had seized in the ambush near Norwich. Yet, as the patent rolls record, the younger Henry had succeeded in having either this or another verdict arising from litigation at common law between him and Martin overturned in November 1466.
It is impossible exactly to ascertain what lay behind the bad blood between the Martins and the younger Henry, but it is more than likely that the latter was jealous of the favour the MP had shown the couple and feared that he might lose some of his inheritance to them. Whatever the case, the incident at Caistor and the fact that the MP had lived away from Ketteringham (perhaps to avoid the younger Henry) at the end of his life indicate a poor state of relations between him and his son. In later years the younger Henry would attain far greater eminence than his hated brother-in-law, Martin, since he was knighted after fighting for the Yorkists at Tewkesbury in 1471, served with Edward IV in France and was a ‘King’s servant’ under Richard III.
