A lawyer, Ralph came from an old family that had held property at Brent Pelham since the thirteenth century or earlier but was of no particular prominence.
Coroners were not necessarily lawyers,
Ralph’s legal qualifications ensured for him a role in local government as a j.p. and commissioner. He began his career as a j.p. in July 1439 and was appointed to his first ad hoc commission in the following year, shortly after the dissolution of the Parliament of 1439. It is through this commission (to distribute an allowance of a tax granted in that assembly), that we know that he sat in the Commons, because the relevant election return has not survived. For lack of evidence, it is impossible to tell whether he enjoyed the support of a noble patron when he stood for Parliament or relied on his own local standing to gain his seat.
Like other lawyers, Ralph was frequently a feoffee, witness, surety or counsellor for various individuals and institutions, among them Sir William Phelip†, John Fray†, Thomas Fynderne*, Robert Morley, 6th Lord Morley, (Sir) Thomas Tyrell*, Ralph Butler, 7th Lord Sudeley, John Say II*, King’s College, Cambridge, and Westminster Abbey. However it came about, his retainer with the abbey lasted for at least a decade (1448-59), if not longer.
In his later years, Ralph served briefly as a j.p. in Cambridge and as an apprentice-at-law for the duchy of Lancaster, which paid him a retainer during the period 1460-3. There is no evidence that he had any property interests in Cambridge, although he was among those to whom Thomas Outlaw of Exning, Suffolk, had made a release of lands in the town and several neighbouring villages in November 1456. His retainer was not his first association with the duchy, which in March 1455 had committed the farm of land at Silkestone, Yorkshire, to him and William Leventhorpe, receiver of its honour of Pontefract and almost certainly a member of the prominent Hertfordshire family of that name. The land had belonged to one of the duchy’s tenants, the late John, Lord Darcy, and the farm was to last for the minority of his heir.
Late in life, Gray pursued a lawsuit in the court of common pleas against the estate of the late Richard Alrede, a former receiver-general of the duchy. When the suit reached pleadings in Hilary term 1464, he alleged that he and Henry Langley had taken a bond from Alrede in London 20 years earlier. As recorded on the plea roll, the pleadings are incomplete and do not reveal whether the bond concerned duchy business or a private matter. According to Gray, Alrede had undertaken to pay him and Langley 100 marks but had handed over only half of this sum.
