Richard de la Mare was the illegitimate son of the first known Speaker, Sir Peter de la Mare, and was probably born in the late 1360s. He first appears in the records when named as a remainder-man in a final concord of 1382. If it is correct to draw the most plausible inference from the unusual settlement embodied in that fine, its levying was prompted by Sir Peter’s abandonment of the hope of legitimate issue. It settled the reversion of the family’s manors of Yatton and Little Hereford, expectant on Sir Peter’s death, upon his younger brother, Malcolm†, and Malcolm’s wife, Alice, and their issue, with remainders over, successively in tail, to three other de la Mares, Thomas, James and our MP, with final remainders to another kinsman, Roger de la Mare, a London draper, in tail-male, and the right heirs of Sir Peter. Later litigation shows that James was a bastard son of Sir Peter, and a deed of 1389 that our MP and Thomas were his brothers.
In the spring of 1387 de la Mare participated in the naval expedition of Richard Fitzalan, earl of Arundel, but other early references to him do not portray him in a favourable light. On 19 Feb. 1395 he and James allegedly murdered one Nicholas Maugne at Kimbolton, near Leominster, and on 4 Aug. 1399 they raided the property of one of the county gentry, Henry Hakluyt, at nearby Eaton, abducting his daughter-in-law, Joan.
By that date de la Mare had the influence to resort to such tactics. He had been quick to identify himself with the new monarch, perhaps because of a connexion with Lancaster predating the usurpation, and soon found a place among the esquires of his household. The first documented benefit of this service came on 19 Jan. 1400, when he shared with another King’s esquire, William Phelip† (later Lord Bardolf), a grant of the considerable annuity of £40, to be taken at the Exchequer (an annuity he was to enjoy until his death), together with the custody of the alien priory of Chepstow during the duration of hostilities with France.
This wealth, however, threatened to be only temporary, for de la Mare stood to lose all his wife’s lands should she predecease him without issue. Given her age (her first marriage, which was childless, had taken place before March 1369),
In making this marriage de la Mare was clearly thinking in material rather than dynastic terms. Perhaps he was depending on his surviving illegitimate brother and earlier partner in crime, James, for the perpetuation of the family. Their niece, Joan, was dead without issue or disinherited by July 1402, by which date, at the latest, James was in possession of, or at least claimed title to, the manors of Little Hereford and nearby Yatton.
By this date the brothers’ careers were set on very different paths. James’s place among the county’s lesser gentry was made apparent by his appointment, in 1410, as a collector of the fifteenth and tenth; by contrast, Richard served only on much more socially-prestigious commissions, to which he began to be appointed soon after contracting his remunerative marriage.
At the beginning of Henry V’s reign, de la Mare secured confirmation of the royal annuity he shared with Sir William Phelip. Although, in 1420, he and James were named among those Herefordshire gentry fit for military service, there is no evidence that he earned this continued reward by participating in Henry V’s French campaigns.
De la Mare’s wife did not long survive this agreement.
So socially significant a marriage was the prelude to a late flowering in de la Mare’s career. He served successively as sheriff and escheator between 1423 and 1425, as MP in the Parliaments of 1425 and 1427, and again as sheriff soon after the end of his second Parliament.
By this date de la Mare, although the father of relatively young children, was already an old man, probably not far short of 70, and he died on 1 Feb. 1436.
De la Mare may have resided in Hereford for at least part of his career. In a royal commission of 1405, he is described as ‘of Hereford’; and residence there would explain the nomination of a Hereford man, Walter Mibbe, among his feoffees in 1407, his own appearance as a feoffee of another citizen in 1428, and his frequent appearances at county parliamentary elections there.
