Any attempt to trace the background and early life of this MP is fraught with difficulty, in part because of his common name, shared by several contemporaries with East Anglian connexions. The heralds and antiquarians who sought to construct a Parker family pedigree offered creative and often contradictory lists of marriages, offspring and descendants, but none of them ventured to describe Nicholas’s origins or to speculate about his ancestry.
Circumstantial evidence also suggests that the MP fought in France, being perhaps the Nicholas Parker who comes to notice at Bordeaux castle in September 1442 as one of a small group of trusted retainers to whom the constable of Bordeaux, Sir Robert Clifton*, left bequests of money (in this case 66s. 8d.) on his deathbed.
Whatever influence may have been deployed on his behalf, there can be little doubt that the Nicholas Parker who served as an MP for Dunwich was already established in the area. An outsider would hardly have attended the county elections held at Ipswich for the Parliament in which he was to sit, or have attested the return of the shire knights. Perhaps significantly, one of them, Philip Wentworth*, was a retainer of the duke of Suffolk.
The identity of a third trustee, Edmund Thurston of Brundish (a few miles from Yoxford), is even more noteworthy, since Parker had almost certainly married his daughter, Margaret, by the time that Wolcy called upon their services. In his last will of 20 Sept. 1462, which was drawn up as a codicil to the testament that he made earlier on the same day, Thurston left the substantial sum of 80 marks (£53 6s. 8d.) to be shared equally between his grand-daughters Alice, Elizabeth and Isabel, Parker’s daughters by Margaret, who was then dead.
I wish that Nicholas Parker, who married Margaret, my daughter, should have the reversion of my tenement called ‘Saxhams’ after my decease, to hold to him and his heirs by Margaret, late his wife, on condition that he in no way disturbs or impedes my executors in the execution of my will, but assists them in all things when required by them. Furthermore, I request the said Nicholas to be always of especial comfort and help to Olive, my wife, in time of need, and when so required. But if the said Nicholas does not, later, comply with these conditions, then the tenement … is to be sold in its entirety by my executors and disposed of, according to their discretion, for the health of my soul.
Reg. Gelour, f. 178v.
The fact that the last will, in which these provisions appear, was not proved until January 1478, almost 14 years after probate of the testament in September 1464, raises many unanswered questions, not least regarding Parker’s compliance. Yet whatever the reasons for this unusual delay they had little effect on Parker’s social standing, which improved considerably during the 1460s and 1470s.
The political landscape had, meanwhile, changed dramatically by October 1462, when Parker and Thurston released their title to John Wolcy’s property in Yoxford (acquired ten years earlier), to a new body of trustees. Among them Robert Vincent† of Dunwich, William Jenney*, a lawyer who had represented the same borough in the Parliament of 1450, and Sir John Heveningham enjoyed particular local influence.
Appointments of this kind furnished Parker with a valuable opportunity to broaden his connexions. At an unknown date, his fellow-commissioner, John Jermyn (d.1487), settled upon Parker, Sir John Heveningham, John Timperley II* and others property worth £10 a year in Withersdale, Suffolk, to hold in trust for him and his heirs. The three men were trustees of other Jermyn family holdings in Mendham, too, and seem to have been close.
Although this act of royal patronage was small beer for Montgomery, especially as Henry was by then technically of age, it proved far more significant for Parker.
It is now impossible to discover exactly when Parker started to build up an estate of his own in Norfolk or how widespread his purchases may have been. He is first described as a resident of Honing in a deed of June 1467, by which point he had also begun to establish himself as a landowner in North Walsham.
Like the Pastons and many other members of the Norfolk gentry, Parker seems also to have owned, or perhaps rented, a town house in Norwich, settling in a north-western suburb of the city known as Pockthorp, an area previously favoured by such eminent veterans of the Hundred Years’ War as Sir Thomas Erpingham and Sir John Fastolf. He had probably taken up residence by October 1483, when he served as a commissioner of gaol delivery in the city, and was certainly living there by the end of the decade.
It was through his association with the civic elite that Parker came to marry his third wife, Agnes, the widow of John Ebbys, a successful mercer who had served as sheriff of Norwich in 1484.
Parker and Alice were married for just over a decade until his death in March 1497. His will, if he ever made one, does not survive, but we are vouchsafed a remarkable insight into his spiritual life in the form of an illuminated missal, which was commissioned by him, almost certainly in Norwich.
Parker was succeeded by his son, John, who must have been of age by 1479, when he shared custody with his father of land in North Walsham, and seems therefore to have been the child of an early and otherwise undocumented marriage.
Nicholas was, however, remembered by a small memorial brass in Honing parish church, which records the same date of death as that noted in his missal (19 Mar. 1497).
